Sooooo Deported still well kinda

So friends and family that read here know about this saga.
I posted first on being deported
My sweet hubby called and they said they would look into why and a few weeks later I posted
on not being deoprted

So fast forward to yesterday.Deanna is turning 18 soon so she needed to apply herself to stay here in Denmark.
So she calls the UDLST and they told her my permit expired in June 2009.WHAT
WAIT HOLD THE PHONE
breathe breathe breathe
Ok so I called UDLST myself to see if she was mistaken.You know teenagers hear random things all the time( Like Mom you said I could borrow the car and drive the tank dry)
OK so I called.First lady was rude and had a hard time understanding me and then rudely said I cannnot help you and hung up.
Call again,I am number 10 in line wait listen to bad music ohhh I am next.The very nice person is helping me figure out what is up and all.She comes back and says I am SO SORRY the card was a MISTAKE!?!?!
WHAT???????????????????
You see the case worker forgot to put a date....beep beep beep
dang dropped call
Try calling back and always 10 inline and wait and wait and get first lady 3 more times and she hangs up on me every.single.time
Finally I call another number and complain and then get a very nice lady that helps me figure it all out.
Since the case worker did not put a date on the form the put permanent.
It was a MISTAKE on THEIR END
yet I have to re-apply by Oct 7th or leave :(
I am so angry and stressed.Why of why cant people get things done right the first time..

Updated to add they asked me to send the mistake card back and they would send one that expired Oct / 2010

Next week is going to be better ...

I just know it.Not only is my Grandma knocking on deaths door but we lost our house.This is after a certain someone promised to make it happen.We were told each step on the way that it would be ours.
Well in between the time we made the offer and it finalized they changed there minds since hubby is now unemployed.So the person that said not to worry go ahead and bid,sign final papers and pay the down payment failed.I mean FAILED...I am more hurt that this happened.So no new house no new store no new stove.Do you think the stove would look good in our bedroom j/k of course.
I have been through so many emotions and kleenex this week it is unreal but alas the week is ending.
Next week will be awesome.I know it will be better and we are deciding what to do next..move stateside or stay here.