Tuesday, February 2, 2010

How I met my Hubby

Since I have met many new friends that are curious how this Texan ended up in Denmark so I will share a bit about us
It starts back in 1997 when I started suffering more with my RA and Lupus.I became beriden and my parents bought me a computer to find info and support.I found several support groups and made new friends.My oldest daughter was having a hard time with ADHD and Aspergers as well.A friend from my Lupus support also has AS so she sent me to IRC and a AS support group.There is where I met M(I will call her that for privacy).She and her mom were great and I loved talking with them.She was dating via the net my lovely hubby Xride(his nickname).So back to the RA/lupus,I was in pretty bad shape and I met some people via my support group in sweden and decided I needed to go there to get some much needed help.(I am leaving out a bunch of ugly details that dont need to be aired here)So in Feb 2001 I went and got alot of answers and met Xride and a whole group of others while I was there.We remained friends and when I left my ex in aug of 2001(thats where the ugly details come in) I moved in with my now Mother in law.Xride and I were friends and waited until my divorce was final and then tested the waters.I was 34 and had 4 kids and he was 23.He is the most awesome man alive.We married in June 2002 and had our first daughter Mackenzie in may 2003,angel baby in 2005 and Makayla aka Stinky in 2008.He is the best dad and hubby I could ask for.He does alot for us and well he just rocks :)


6 comments:

Mer (Lulu's Mommy) said...

Thank you for sharing. Lovely story! (minus the missing parts which I am sure were not)

Keli said...

Great story. Since it is cold and snowy where you live, I left you something over on my blog. Check it out.

Nanette said...

Ok, how did I miss that you were from Texas?!? HAHAHA...

So glad you two found each other. So very sweet!

Margaret said...

Wow Missie - that's a great story. I was thinking of asking you how you ended up over there but am never sure what's appropriate in the cyber world.

PJ said...

Hey Missie! First off would I be presumpuous by asking where in Texas? I'm living in Comanche, TX right now, but I was raised between Lubbock and El Paso. OK, now. I really enjoyed reading your blog. I know what you mean about the "ugly parts". I've been married 3 times. By the blessings of God this one has lasted almost 24 years, so I am praying that it will be my last one.

I hope this finds you happy and having a good day. My hubby's aunt had Lupus and suffered greatly, so I sympathize with you. I will keep you in my prayers.

Thank you for stopping by my blog. I hope you will return and visit a little bit.

Love & Prayers,

PJ

dkmissie said...

I just saw this PJ
I am from Victoria